Life is about making choices. what else?
You choose your ending and you create your way towards it. As simple as that.
And you choose what kind of person you wanna be. An honest person, or someone who says nice things to make others happy. and yet they say honesty is the best policy. If you deserve to feel like crap, I should treat you so that you feel like crap. If you deserve to feel good, I will treat you so that you feel good. Not making you feel good while you should feel like crap. it's your call, to be or not to be.