marriage is about being together with the other half of you through happiness and sorrow, through success and hardships. to be able to accept each others' flaws, to cherish each others' good quality, and perhaps to value every single moment you spend together. and of course, to love unconditionally. and these two amazing figures in my life had led a beautiful journey together for 32 years, Happy Wedding Anniversary mama n abah, May Allah bless both of you, may every second you went through as husband and wife be rewarded in the hereafter. =) December 25th 1977
mom and dad in sungai mekong
come to think about it, how wonderful it is if every second of our life being married is regarded as ibadah and "get rewarded" for it, and most importantly it is one of the thing that brings us closer to Allah. You can never hope for anything better in love life except to be granted a person who loves you dearly and that the love you share makes you a better slave of Him.
it's a loss. i mean like a total loss that the understanding of love has been a real mess. there's nothing wrong about the feeling, it's the way you express it or channel it that determines the value of it. It is something that can lead you both ways, and you have to be the smart driver to make sure that your end destination would be Allah's blessing instead of His grieve. and I believe we all pray that Allah will give us the guidance to lead a healthy obeying love life, and we all hope that He would forgive us for every wrongdoings we had conduct previously.
instead of waiting for the other half of you to pops out in the middle of nowhere, perhaps it is best that we get ourselve prepared to be the one to complete our other halves. live love and radiate. =)